About sex “through a postern” part II
For the first try of intrusion it is better to use your little finger. Your index finger – is a desirable guest in vagina, even for virgin, but rectum is somewhat different. Remember that your action must be consecutive.
Instead of penetrating into inside, move a finger round folds formative the rim of its anal opening. Soon you will know, weather she likes it or not, because she will start to squeeze the sphincter muscle, either to help you to enter the finger inwards, or to chuck him out. When the tag of your finger passed an outward muscular ring, do not start to move the finger to and through, as you would begin to do
it in a vagina - pleasure which a woman gets from anal love is not in afoot, but in all engulfing sense of filled space, filled by either a finger or penis.
Slowly enter a little finger inside, to the joint, after that start making slow circular motions by all wrist, not moving the finger to and fro. These motions and pressure will be felt in vagina, because rectum directly abuts upon womanish privy parts.
While doing it, try also to do anything not anal - kiss its mammilla or caress a belly-button by a tongue - to distract her from the reflections: what else you’ve prepared for her.
A woman, who enjoys by pre-anal game will be prepared to the other part just for the game itself.
Analingus - in Latin means “anus-plus-tongue”. Some people call it “riming” (reaming) - from Old English “remen”, that means to “open” slightly. The word of “rim” (to outline, surround) best of all expresses essence of this technique, because anus from the outside is the rim formed by the ring of folds.
Women, who haven’t tried it for a single time, say “O-its horrible!” at least up to the moment, when they will make an attempt and under the experienced guidance come to love it.
A woman should lie on the belly with her legs parted and should put a pillow under her belly so that she could put herself up. Otherwise man can have his neck broken. This position will also give you a chance to watch her amenities that are located below.
Before concentration on anuse, make unhurried leaking upwards and downwards along her anal dale. Pay special attention to the crotch: hard, sinewy, by a size of a coin, region separating anus from vagina. This place is extraordinarily erogenous, By the way, women must mean that the same area of body of a men- also very erogenous.
When you caress its anus by a tongue, do not “dive” deeply - the same as for other erogenous areas, here is a rule: the less, so much the better.
It is obvious, that at such moment it is good to smear her with your spittle, and, at the same time to excite a little more. Traditional romantic way of relations is good, but from time to time man should play a rule of tender animal for a woman. If she follows instructions, stated in this class he will be surprised by the depth of her excitement as a response on his primitive passion.
Many consider this procedure unavailing, because tongue can not penetrate inside well. Certainly, you will not turn your tongue out carelessly up to a colon, but you will be able to bring your tongue directly into the ring of sphincter muscle. The excited woman will help to do it, making an effort clutch the tag of tongue in a few seconds - span-new and unexplored ambivalent feeling.
Again finger, but little bigger.
Now your partner is relaxed and wet so that can adopt your index finger. Enter a finger by tender circular motions and do a pause every time, when she becomes taut, in order that she was in a position to prepare itself to the reception of greater length and width. She least will feel to “pierced”, if will lie in embryonic position on to the side, folding knees to the breast. Such position will allow to you at the same time to enter your large finger her in a vagina; it is useful from the psychological point of view, because, as you make your way through a “postern”, you carry out “normal procedure”.
As soon as your finger passed a sphincter muscle, do not take it out. Sphincter is Rubicon. Numerous transitions only inflame it. If she feels discomfort, wait, do not take out all finger. Every attempt to start will compel her to be nervous all more and more concerning its power to adopt it.
A woman who succeeds to adopt the greatest finger of the man possibly will want to go farther. Do not spare greasing - use her both on your penis, and on her anal region.
A woman must get up on knees, by a bosom touching the thighs; only a great “specialist” can sit down on a man from above. Get up on knees in front of buttocks of your partner, insert a penis between its “cheeks” and gently pin his head against its rim. Let next motions belong to her; ask that she, doing rotatory motions (as though winded) by a pelvis, was given you to meet. When she will start making it, go - but do not push! - ahead.
It is not necessary to gripe her for thighs, instead, find to the hands the job on its lobke: if you will enough excite its clitoris, she will be ready to give all in the world, only you were included in her in any way.
If only you are not a super giant, your balanus will enter her rectum. Wait a little bit. Pauses in anal sex are much more important than active moments. Don’t hold her hips very hard; instead of it find a job for your hands on her clitoris.
As anus is narrower of any vagina, there is no necessity to the man vigorously to move penis in order to get pleasure. Such conciseness in itself is enough excitant and such feeling of filled space causes pulsations which can not be felt in a more than elastic vagina. In addition, there is a psychological factor which replaces more than active motions of man: one consciousness of that you are found directly there, possibly, is most powerful from all stimuli. On confessedly traditional standards this territory is still considered forbidden, and still human nature is always inclined to actions in defiance of prohibitions.
At the first few tries of anal taking you shouldn’t put your penis to the whole depth. Maybe a week, or a month will pass before you will do it. just remember the following: your success will come step by step.
In actual fact, anal sex is not nearly rough and animal. It can contain most tenderness and co-ordination of partners, because it implies the special anxiety about the comfort and feeling of woman - such anxiety which is implied by none other form of sex. Circumstance that some women try to attain anal pleasure in spite of the fact that she feels pain in the beginning of her experience, similarly is proof of erotic force of anal sex.
And so, men are free further for girls. ))))
All care enumerated above ( not to mix up with sexual intercourse), similarly can deliver pleasure and your partner, because at men anus is, one of the most brightly expressed erogenous areas. The main is not to be too zealous. And by the way except for pleasure you will also bring a use to the man, because massage of prostate, it is an excellent prophylaxis from the great number of masculine ailments!