Everyone, who wants to extend the range of the erotic cognition, early or late catches himself on the idea of this semiforbidden fruit - anal taking. However, many people do it in such way, that it is possible to name it both in direct and in figurative sense - “through a bum”. People just need to try or even only to think of sex “through a postern”, as a mass of negative emotions arise at them. So we will consider the given object objectively.
One of the main problems is a fear: fear of pain both at women, and at men. In addition, disgust and even sudden change of senses for a partner is the ordinary reactions, because laws reprobate many widespread types of sexual practice, such as, for example, oral sex. But the anal taking is the only form of “unnatural sex”, the name of which originates from Bible: sodomiya and attributes it to the category of so-called “crackpots”.

Despite everything, mane pairs discovered to their own delight that making love must have no taboo and anal sex can also be enjoyed.
The way one should not ask:
Fear of the anal taking begins long before that moment when physical part stars directly. Many men neither from that, nor from this frighten women off by raising this theme. Certainly the question is about the case, when a question is put by a man. If a woman invites a man, then it is clear: ahead!
Most men are waiting till the last minute, when the affair comes to opening the vagina by penis during ordinary sexual procedure, and then follows: “What about making an attempt in the back this time?”

The first reaction of a woman – a fright, all in all there are just a few centimeters between vagina and asshole; all he needs to do is to go a bit lower.
Other bad beginning: “have you ever felt this thing in your ass?” In any case, putting her before a necessity to answer “yes” or no”, you will make her feel nervous and reserved, and the anal taking more than any sexual intercourse, requires physical and psychological emancipation.
When you do not know what to say - better be silent. Possibly, it is easily to know about the personal interest of your woman, saying nothing at all. As well as any other erogenous area, anus (both inwardly and outwardly) for different women has a different degree of sensitiveness.

Anal sex, as much as genital requires prelude, so try not to spoil your chances by haste. Start to caress her buttocks on all surfaces and watch her reaction. Is she shifting her “cheeks” densely? It means that she strains nervously, and if her “cheeks” are relaxed – it’s a good sign.
Then, starting from the spine base, carry an index finger downwards her anal depression. Look, does she do motion backwards, trying to clutch your finger between the buttocks? Is she turning over invitingly on a stomach, when you begin to feel her rectum? If she makes anything out of it, means, your chances grow.
It is necessary to treat a woman who had nothing at herself “from a rear” before as you treated a frontal virgin. And it is not necessary to push a finger in .. at once, knowing, that there is no hymen. Pretend that she is. Moisten an index finger by her hymen juices or your own saliva. It is simpler to use this natural greasing, than suddenly begin to bustle about round her with some jar.
to be continue…

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