Cast by the beer that was drunk, the book that was read and the personal experience.
Men, when they are close by women they like, are like mosquitoes in a nudist colony. They know exactly what to do but have no idea what to start with. If there were such discipline as “Art to understand the opposite sex” in school they wouldn’t pass my examination. I divided men into three types. Type 1: Descendant of Freud. Type 2: Consummate Logical. Type 3: Dynamic Reader. To a great regret, I guess, not only mine, but all women’ with no exceptions, “Dynamic Reader” is unusual occurrence in the nature; moreover, I would even say that this type of men has almost died out. Well, let’s decipher every type. Type 1 - Descendant of Freud. He is deeply convinced that absolutely any movement of a woman by all means says that she is in need of sex. Frequently such men are looking for sexual underlying reasons where there is no one. And then they are in complete bewilderment why the lady, who was emotionally gesticulating when telling about her dog, suddenly refused to make sex.
Type 2 – Consummate Logical. This is a man who always and everywhere strictly follows logical laws. He doesn’t even suspect about existence of nonverbal signals, and even if he heard this word-combination, I can bet he thought it was some dirty curse. When a girl, looking straight at his eyes, carelessly casts her hair away from her neck, he is sure that it’s because of heat. It won’t occur to him that this is an instinctive signal, which means submissiveness (even dogs understand this gesture).
Type 3 – Dynamic Reader. He notices and deciphers even the most delicate signal, directed to him by a woman. I guess, there is no sense to describe this type further. It’s time to write it down into the “Red Book”.
Alas, women are much more sensitive and refined than men. Nature disposed that when future men played boy-scouts, future women perfected nonverbal skills. They got together and analyzed every word, every letter, gesture and intonation of the most attractive boy in the class. We (women) develop the art of manipulation from the cradle. Do you recognize the situation, when your little daughter swoops down on you, scrambles on your knees and starts: “Daddy, I love you so much! I love your forehead (kisses in the forehead), and I love your nose (kisses in the nose). I missed you so much! And you know, daddy, me and mommy were passing by one shop today. And there was such a bicycle there. It is so…”? Do you understand now that unlike you, logically completed creations, we, women, don’t follow logic when trying to reach the desirable? And when a girl, sitting opposite you in café, unbuttons the top button of her shirt, it doesn’t mean it’s hot there. And if she starts to play with her costume jewelry, passing it between her fingers, it’s not importantly something nervous. Female brain is much more complex than you think. When being with you, independently if she wants sex or not, every her movement is thought over carefully. And if you are at least a bit more attentive, in due course you will learn to understand when a girl wants acquaintance with you and more and when she is sick with only your presence. Don’t be so rectilinear. Openness and honesty are good features. But women need some intimate intensity. Learn to play the games women play and you will open new colors of this world.